You can create an open and honest relationship where you and your partner inspire each other and make each other laugh or you can judge, complain, blame and let anger and frustration rule. What is your choice? Your children will learn from you how to do that.
You can share openly what is really in your heart, knowing that whatever you have in your heart carries no harm, or you can choose to keep silent, repress your emotions, avoid talking about the uncomfortable things and let them grow into a very painful locked experience. What is your choice? Your children will learn from you how to do that.
You can be in the relationship fully present, letting love lead instead of fear or you can hold back and let fear stop you from giving and receiving love. What is your choice? Your children will learn from you how to do that.
Sex, touch and intimacy can be the most beautiful ingredients of life or something to be afraid of or carry shame around. What is your choice? Your children will learn from you how to do that.
You can make your loved ones feel significant and important and therefore you will most likely receive the same from them, or you can ignore them and instead stay connected to a phone, TV or other form or busyness that just leads to more disconnection. What is your choice? Your children will learn from you how to do that.
So really, what is your choice? If you are happy with your choice that is beautiful. Keep doing what you do, stay open, and keep being ready to make the required changes when they appear.
If you are not happy with your choices and you are ready to make a change – know that you can do that. There is a clear path for you to convert what now might seem to be scary, overwhelming and frustrating into a beautiful experience which is funny and fun. If you are ready to take that path PM me and let’s have some fun together to bring your intimate relationship back to where you want it to be.